We all know Anu and Arya from Jothe Jotheyali. While they struggle to accept their feelings for each other, there is another couple in the show that we must pay heed to. Pushpa and Subbu who play Anu’s parents in the show are total #CoupleGoals. They support each other and have brought up someone as special as Anu as a team!
Here are a few take-aways from their relationship that you and your partner must consider in order to build a strong and long-lasting relationship.
Relationships don’t happen in a vacuum. They occur when the couples take the risk of sharing what’s going on in their hearts and heads. Subbu and Pushpa have been together for years. This has given them the time to understand each other while living under the same roof and this has only been possible as they are always open with each other.
Anger Is A Waste Of Time
Anger is a relationship killer because it makes you self-absorbed and won’t allow you to see the good. If you are annoyed with your mate, give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss what’s going on. Even though, Pushpa and Subbu have differences of opinion with regard to Anu, they always make one another understand their point. Being angry is just a source of mental disturbance.
Make And Accept Changes
If you love someone and think that after some time the other will alter behaviours you find uncomfortable, think again. If you want changes, put them on the table. This way your partner knows what you need. Throughout the series, we see the couple having different stand points. However, Efficient communication between the two helps the other gain perspective and better themselves.
Celebrate The Differences Between Men And Women
We’re not from Mars or Venus. Understanding and celebrating our differences will make living together more peaceful, interesting, and fun instead of using qualities that are innate to us against each other. The two of them are always trying to understand each other’s point of view.
Stay Best Friends
For some this might sound unromantic, but for those who live it, most say it’s the best part of their time together. Pushpa and Subbu are the best of friends on-screen. They always have a good time together and share a lot of fun moments that make them compatible. We see them go out together, eat panipuri, go on bike rides and so on and so forth.
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